his is going hurt us more than it hurts you.

That chestnut of Adoring Discipline applies here because we're going to devote at least the next year of our lives to burrowing very deeply into all of the intimate nooks and crannies of these headspaces which move so many of us, in so many ways, and yet are sometimes so hard to define.

The various ways that authority, and the specter of very real CP, make people like us feel deep in our tummies -- and hearts -- have never really been explored the way we'd like, with a strong emphasis on living these things in a real relationship, in a real life (or desiring to), and paying attention to how amazingly powerful the details often are -- the subtleties that make this endlessly more fascinating than just the simple swat of the simple behind.

"You can feel the warm cocoon of strong, firm arms around you, providing the loving guardrails... ...And you can also find yourself mightily aroused by that very structure and discipline..."

The fact that a particular word, or tone of voice, or look in someone's eye, can set off a cascade of emotions, from your tummy to your head, and rippling back down even lower than your tummy, shows just how powerful something that seems very subtle, can be.

And it shows how powerful the psychology of this is for you, and for us-- the headspace. You've seen the endless parade of wannabe sites who try to lure you there with stupid images of bored prostitutes pretending to be spanked, or pretending to care about what some stranger is doing to them.