unishmentality. A word that we made up, but we like it. We think it says a lot about a very hairy headspace to define, but one that's woven itself through the sweaty dreams and sweatier lifestyles of a lot of you -- and us.

In short, we're talking here about the need, for various reasons, to have someone who will punish you regularly. Of course, that sounds ludicrous on some levels, and to most people -- but then, so do a lot of the things that you crave, if you're here reading this.

That "need" may be an emotional, or psychological, or sexual need, or a combination of the three. But it's about being more fulfilled in your life if you get a very loving, but also very real (not manufactured, giggly roleplay, so much, but real) punishment now and then, when someone knows it's right for you.