article: Creative reParenting: Consistency and the Innergirl by Unka Bobby
Creative reParenting
by Unka Bobby (Bobby S.)


This is one of those rare issues that I want to speak to from my own experience, rather than what I've learned from talking to others. Because the vast majority of what I know about other Guardians comes from Innerkids -- I don't have many male friends, and while I cherish my few female-Top friends, they're way to busy to talk to me!

But one of the sparks for wanting to cover "consistency" this issue came from my own struggles with it. I'm as completely wired-up as they come for this stuff -- my friends started calling me "Unka Bobby" to tease me about always ending up the confidante, or confessor, for the teenaged girls whose underpants they couldn't get out of their minds.